Focus on the Family with
Dr. Dobson

We‚re moving to another state in a few months. I know it‚s going to be tough for our two children who have so many friends at school.
How can I get them ready for life in a new city?
Going to a new school or moving to a new town can be an unpleasant experience for children, but there are some ways to make it easier for them.
Preparation and forethought are the keys. Educator Cheri Fuller recommends that those who are about to relocate call a family meeting to talk about what‚s going to happen. Begin to lay plans together. It‚s sad to say goodbye to good friends and it‚s hard to make new ones. Try establishing pen pals for your children in the new school long before the move is to occur. Relationships can blossom through the mail so that the kids are not entirely unknown in the new location.
It's also helpful to create curiosity about the new city or neighborhood you're moving to. Write to the state tourist bureau or to the chamber of commerce and ask for brochures and maps. When your children begin to understand the adventure of moving, they may develop a more positive
attitude toward leaving. A bit of preparation and a healthy dose of communication continued...