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What
does behavioral research tell us about the best way to raise children?
Have scientific studies spelled out what works and what doesn't,
especially regarding how to discipline properly?
My answer may sound like heresy coming from a man who spent
10 years of his life as a professor of pediatrics, responsible for
medical and behavioral research, but I don't believe the scientific
community is capable of determining the best parenting techniques.
There have been some worthwhile studies, to be sure, but the subject
of discipline almost defies definitive investigation. Why? Because
the only way to study this topic scientifically would be to place
newborns randomly in "permissive" vs. "disciplined" families, and
then keep them under close observation for 10 or 15 years. Since
it is impossible to do that, researchers have tried to tease out
information where they could find it. But family relationships are
so multidimensional and complicated that they almost defy rigorous
scrutiny. Indeed, most of the studies reported in the literature
are scientifically continued...
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